perception & judgement.

2.27
(relating to control theory of juv delinq)
there is a person that i know that i think is really weird. that person is really nice and admirable, but i think of that person as odd/a lil off. where did i get this idea of what is the norm? when i was little, i was a fat and weird kid, so i was open to people that were different/not more accepted like me. As ive grown older, i have come to learn that more emphasis is put on appearance and actions, not the underlying reasons for things done. what really is important thou?
this perception, however, didnt start to process in my mind until i saw another readily accept and deeply have a relationship with this first person, regardless of their oddity. how great would it be if we could all be like that one person- readily accepting regardless of superficial judgement?

i hope to be like that one person. i dont want to be judgemental.