Saturday, December 11, 2010

Series 1: Opposing Arguments

Aug 04, 2010
Fighting with my brother is not fun; nor is it easy. Especially because he is visiting me here in my own environment, me as a different being altogether being away from umma and appa. We were pretty close in his late elem stages, when i was in hs. Now hes all grown up, going thru puberty, and i can see the glimpses of him having his own mind.

We got into a fight, but with his attitude, i ended up disciplining him. However, in the end- by talking it out, we were able to work things out.

Lesson: COMPROMISE.

Regardless of our own arguments, what he wants, what i want, after talking it out for 2 hrs, we came to the conclusion that we both made mistakes and need to work at it together. we cant change each other, but we can change the way we approach one another.